affects the way your life pans out.
You have a choice in the way that you think.
You can choose to see all the negatives in your life and focus on those things…
or you can choose to focus on all the positive things in your life.
Choose the former way of thinking…
and you’ll be sad, miserable, and people won’t want to spend time with you.
Choose the latter way…
and you’ll be positive, content and a pleasure to be around.
You have that choice.
It’s within your power to think either way.
The moment you realise that…
and start taking action to only focus on what’s good in your life…
your life will change for the better.
Of course it may not be easy at first to change that deep seated, long-standing habit of negative focus…
but with consistent daily practice of that new skill of only focusing on the good…
you’ll get there…
if you want to.
The problem a lot of people will have…
is that there is a secondary benefit to focusing on all the negative.
Perhaps you lack love and connection (one of our innate human needs) in your life…
and talking about all the negative stuff in your life to the people around you…
gives you that sense of connection and love.
Of course once you realise that it’s false…
you can then do something about it and seek out REAL love and connection…
through other means…
perhaps through sharing with the people around you what’s good in your life.
It’ll have the same effect.
In fact it’ll have a much better effect.
Why?
Because they’ll want to be around you more….
leading to that feeling of love and connection that you crave.
Analyse your thinking today…
and start making a conscious effort to start focusing on only what’s good in your life.
It’ll have such a big impact…
in more ways than one.
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